Next week marks a return for me to homeschooling both of my kids. My 16 year old went to high school for grade ten and the first part of grade eleven but we pulled him out before Christmas break because it was becoming a toxic environment for him. This is the first time in eleven years of homeschooling that I have felt nervous. I don’t know if it’s residual anxiety from the process of pulling him out of school or anxiety over the sibling rivalry that I have mostly avoided with one gone all day.
My boys learn in completely different ways. One is a book learner that read early, the other is a hands-on learner that hates to read. Both hate practicing, repetition, and review, but maybe that’s common to everyone (we all just have to learn that we need to do it I guess). The oldest loves history and Shakespeare and is critical of 99% of things he comes across. The youngest is good at math and science but has willed himself to hate anything that seems “educational”. Somehow we had a great homeschool experience and it was an adjustment to only have one at home, but now we’re having to flip back. I’m not sure I’m ready!
I’m also in full-on high school mode, with the youngest turning 15 in March. Time to plan and move into high school credits and documentation and doing what needs to be done for post-secondary. We are lucky to have a great facilitator who will be back in the spring for a visit, this time with both kids. But a month ago I was preparing myself for having both kids gone all day and now it’s a complete turnover to be planning to have them both at home. I’m so grateful! But I’m so scared!
In the end I know all that matters is that we follow God’s plan for us. If it takes the boys four years to finish high school instead of three, that’s fine. If they have to upgrade, that’s fine too. As long as they follow their hearts and continue to learn, then I’ve done okay.
I wish all of you a fantastic homeschooling year!